Dildo Harnesses
When looking at harnesses ask yourself a few simple questions to narrow the field. Pelvic harness, thigh harness and/or furniture harness? Pelvic harnesses are worn with the base of the dill positioned on the pubic bone. This option allows the most variety of positions and really hot visuals. Pelvic harness use tip: clitoral stimulation for the wearer can be achieved by using any one of a variety of clever harness accessories and ingenious additions. For a Gift Kit that accessories any style of harness, look at our Park'N Ride.
A thigh harness is good for people who have lower back problems, don’t like the idea of pelvic thrusting, or want to expand their repertoire and already have a pelvic harness. In the latter case, may we suggest two thigh harnesses, two dills and two grrrls! This is a position we may often find ourselves in anyway but now can add mutual penetration too.
Furniture harnesses come with a title that is self explanatory. They enable you to strap your dill down to most inanimate household furnishings.
For those who don’t want a harness for outward penetration but, rather, to hold a dill or plug inward, you can add a Harness Cuff to a pelvic harness or check out the Butt Plug Harness.
Cleaning Tips: Leather, nylon and rubber harnesses can be hand washed with basic hand-soap and warm water. Hang to dry. Cleaning leather harnesses isn’t too complicated, as long as you follow a few easy steps: (1) After each use wash with a mild soap and water. Do Not Soak; (2) Towel dry hard-ware to avoid rust (covering rivets with clear nail polish keeps water off ) and hang to dry; (3) Restore the leather’s natural oils. Do not use Dubin or Mink Oil, these are animal fats and can go rancid. Beware that wax based products will sit on the surface of the harness rather than be absorbed. This may result in the product ending up on you or your partner’s genitals. We recommend a Vancouver manufactured product called Dayton OK Oil. You can restore the lustre of a rubber harness with a silicone lubricant such as Eros.
Next ask yourself: leather, nylon or rubber? Leather harnesses hold the best but require more care and attention in clean up. The leather will soften over time and take your shape. Provided you care for your leather properly, it will far outlast any other harness material over time. When choosing leather you are often given a choice between buckles or D-rings for closures and/or tighteners. Buckles look hot but only size in increments and are more difficult to adjust in mid-fuck. D-rings are infinitely adjustable and a tug tightens them on the fly.
Nylon harnesses are light weight and can be thrown in the washer for clean up. They come in a variety of colours to accent your dill and use long lasting nylon closures like those used on back packs to tighten your straps. Nylon does tend to want to slide around more than leather or rubber plus the closures are difficult to handle once your hands are lubed up.
If rubber is your fetish then we need say no more. If you are looking for a leather alternative, easy to clean, recycled heavy weight rubber might be just the thing. It is sweaty and smells like rubber tubing but holds very securely.
If you have decided a pelvic harness is the one for you, next ask yourself: G-string or jock-strap? G-string harnesses have a strap that runs through the legs. Some women find it hits just right for stimulating the clit, others find it irritating. If you don’t like thong underwear you probably aren’t going to like a G-string harness.
Jock-strap harnesses have two straps that go around the legs leaving your genitals exposed for stimulation. Harness Cuffs can be added for a second dill and/or a butt plug and can be removed when not in use. This avoids covering what you might want to play with! Men can also comfortably wear a jock-strap style.
We start with our pelvic harness selection, follow with thigh harnesses, and end with furniture harnesses. All of our harnesses are woman-made and warranted against defects in manufacture. Regular wear and tear can be repaired at a minimal price.