Our customers give us a lot of feedback here at Womyns'Ware! We're so different from what people expect a sex toy shop to be. We receive a gratifyingly large number of customer comments that help us to understand what it is that folks value about Womyns’Ware. Your comments shape our decision "making in so many ways. It’s simply symbiotic! So one day it occurred to us to let our customers speak to potential "customers, instead of us trying to express why you might want to be a patron of Womyns’Ware. A snappy ad campaign based on customer testimonials that originate on this page followed. Take a Look!
Do you have a comment or question? Here are a few comments from our customers:
"You guys really are the best there. Keep up the good work. I have pointed many a previously dissatisfied or uneducated toy owner to your wonderful toy store and never heard back from them except the occasional smirk. I'm guessing contented silence. I take these to be glowing reviews! Te he!" --Michael - a customer who'd like some people to know he approves of us!
"The products you sent to Australia were so very well packaged with such care. I was soo delighted you took the time to package them soo securely. Also, your customer service on the phone was ace throughout the whole ordering process. I could not be more content with this store!" --Happy Down Under
"I live in the US and visited Vancouver over the holidays. I absolutely LOVED your shop!! My gf and I were told to go there by a male friend. It was really amazing. I imagine it is the most comfortable and tasteful sex shop around. And I LOVE that it is geared towards women. Thank you so much! [...] I loved the customer service and wish that I lived closer." Thank you! --A Pleased Customer From "The South"
An independent, unsolicited view point!
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“Going into a sex store can be a traumatizing experience. You never know who or what you’re going to find in there. Don’t even get me started on the places with 25 cent peep shows! It’s enough to send you running to the drug store. Enter: Womyn's Ware. It's clean! There aren't creepy people! It's well lit! All things you don't necessarily associate with a sex toy store. You'll be totally comfortable browsing, whether you're looking for some simple lube or a new vibrator to spice up your sex life.
The staff are incredibly knowledgeable and friendly. If you're a bit of a virgin they'll give you the info you need to choose wisely. If you're an old pro you can discuss the merits of your fave products, and learn about new ones and the safest way to try them.
Don't hesitate to bring the men in your life. I know it has womyn in the title, but it's really for everyone. The staff will walk him through the merch if he’s hesitant, showing him what he needs and what will please you the most. Womyn’s Ware has been voted Best Sex Toy Shop in the Georgia Straight’s Best of Vancouver for fifteen years straight. That kind of devout following and consistency speaks for itself. So the next time you’re awkwardly hunting for KY in London Drugs, just leave. Hop on a bus and go to the Drive for an experience that won’t have you cringing.” --By Meghan Roberts
“Woohoot Tiptoe! I’m a happy woman! My parcel with wondrous sculptures etc arrived much sooner than I expected. Would have emailed you yesterday – but was too busy! Thank you for my extra treat – and your excellent service. Cheers!" --a delighted customer from Down Under
“By the way. We both love your store. It's such a great concept in presentation, feel and atmosphere. We felt completely comfortable. Going into other sex shops can make the experience feel less wholesome. No such disagreeable feelings here. Keep up the good work! You'll be seeing us regularly since you've got another satisfied customer – in more ways than one!” --satisfied x 2 (in more ways than one) customers
"Awesome, awesome and awesome! ... !" --excerpt from one of the independent reviews at Yelp
"I think I will come on in for sure. You have my curiosity piqued now ...
Thanks for the service, and your time again! Over and above what I expected. I think I will change favorite shops now ... seriously." --A customer ready for a change to great service!
"Hi! I purchased from your store several times over the last 6 years ... I've loved every product that I've purchased from you. I read the information that you have on the site and just recently read about your beautiful Lady logo ... I think and see her as all us women; beautiful, fun, quirky and full of life! And that's what a woman is and what makes us appealing to our partners.
I want to lend my support to you and compliment you on a beautiful business and inspiration to all women. I hope to come to Vancouver some time and come say "Hi" in person! Thank you." --a remote yet so close to our hearts customer!
"Thank you for being human beings!!" --A customer in response to the way we handled the transition to the new taxation system.
"...got it today ... thanks for the quick and awesome service!" --A customer who appreciates fast and fantastic service
"First of all: Thank you for being there and for your website!!!
I have never bought any sex toy and didn't even consider doing so until recently (I wasn't opposed to them, just didn't feel like using one myself). When I started looking online for a place to buy a toy, I knew that I would come across a lot of websites that I would totally dislike and others that I would not like enough before landing in the right place for me. I'm a feminist, an environmentalist and a leftist who cares about fair trade.
With this in mind, I had vowed to myself to only buy from a place that I would feel totally comfortable with, not intimidated by, where I felt that my body, other women's bodies and all sexualities were honored, where I felt welcome, respected and supported. I also wanted my toy to be safe and, since I have no previous experience buying and using one, I needed a team that would provide me with clear, detailed info on each item and some guidance about how I could find the soft, easy, gentle tool that could keep my vagina happy and supple for my own pleasure and for ... my boyfriend ...
Now, to put a long story short, I LOVE YOUR TEAM, YOUR WEBSITE AND YOUR BUSINESS! After hours of searching the web for products that fit my criteria and could be delivered to Europe, I kept coming back to your website. The more I looked elsewhere (even on famous "sex-positive" or "women-friendly" websites), the more I liked and appreciated your offer and the great work you do for your customers. For environmental reasons (saving on transportation), I wish I had found a European company that had the same spirit, wit and dedication as well as the same great-quality range of products, but I just couldn't find anything quite like you ;-).
So here I am ... I can't say enough and enough times how grateful, joyful and, yes, empowered, your website makes me feel. This is rare enough for any website, more so for commercial websites, and even more so for sex products websites, so congratulations and thanks to the whole team!
Looking forward to hearing from you and to placing my order,"
--A Customer Who Gave Us So Many Great Quotes for Our Customer Comments Feature - And Made Our Week!
"I would also like to extend my thanks and positive feedback for your staff on the day I went into your store. The lady who assisted me was very helpful, approachable and gave me excellent service that day. Unfortunately I did forgot to ask for her name - however just wanted to let you know that after years of being in the customer service industry, not only is positive feedback not the norm, but I appreciate and am loyal to those stores that offer this high quality of service." -- Signed, an out of country visitor
"Thank you a lot for your quick, friendly and helpful reply. I'm glad to hear I really got the idea driving your work. ... I made my final decision to order from you: after much internet searching and discarding, I had narrowed my choice down to three or four stores based in Europe or North America. Two distinctive features of your approach carried the day for me. Only you said that, while your products make for very nice additions to one's sexuality, they are not a necessity. And only you did not sell glass dills. I'm no expert on sex toys, but really, sending an object made of glass into anyone's body is at best stupid and at worst reckless. I am genuinely proud to support your business for a ton of reasons like these one."
"I placed my order right after reading your reply and was most pleasantly suprised to receive my package only 7 days later.... To sum things up, I am a happy user (great dill + great lube) and a satisfied customer (fair prices + great service)."
"Needless to say, my all-happy reaction and successful, painless first experience with the dill has also made my boyfriend a very happy guy. We looked at your website together (he learned some things in the process too) and he is as thankful to your team and business as I am! WE LOVE YOU WOMYN'SWARE! And much to his surprise, I have even started thinking of ordering another toy from you in a while ... because it may turn out to be the indispensable foundation that I build from). The icing on the cake was your letter in the package with the product-specific advice and explanations - so much more than the usual online-shopping bill confirmation."
"Thank you again soooo much for your products, your service and your spirit! I'll recommend you every time I can! All the best to you and the whole team,"--A happy user and a satisfied customer
"Thanks again just for being there, and for sharing all this valuable sexual knowledge with the curious public. Geez... why don't they teach us this stuff in school? I really think that sex education in the high schools has got a long way to go!". -- A Nice Customer with a Positive Attitude
"Thank you for the information. I definitely find your business very educational and a great asset to women everywhere! Thank you for attending to [my partner's] birthday gift". --A Pleased Gift Giver
"... Womynsware is a great place to look for toys close to the Burnaby campus. It's located just off Hastings on Commercial, and prides itself on being an environment that celebrates and empowers women's sexuality. You can check out their website, or go and visit them personally. --Simon Fraser University Health and Counselling Services
"Hey Womynsware,
I just wanted to thank you guys for a great job, my order arrived the very next day, even though it was Saturday! I wasn't expecting it for another week! Everything arrived nicely packed and everything was of the highest quality! Nice to see a store that knows what its selling for a change, I will not be shopping anywhere else! Thanks again!"
--A Customer Who Won’t Be Going Anywhere Else
"Cool! Thanks for the info. [in answer to my questions] ... See, this is why WomynsWare is the only toy store I go to."--a pleased repeat customer
"I just bought the Yin Yang (Delight) rechargeable toy.... and all I can say is it is a good thing I am unemployed right now!! I may not leave the house for a few days! It was much more money than I intended to spend ... but worth every cent!" --a satisfied customer
"Hey [my sweetie] and I were at your Vancouver shop on the weekend. Wanted to say THANKS, you guys were great and we had a fun shopping excursion. Followed by a great lunch at Stellas on the recommendation of the WW staff. Anyhow, we want to thank WWare for making our hot dates hot! We live miles and miles away from each other right now, so its super fun to really explore when we are together. Anyhow - thanks!" --happy customers
"Thank You so much for the most informative reply I have ever received from an online company. I really appreciate your time and information." --a pleased customer
"Hi there,
I just wanted to say thank you very much for your prompt delivery of the order and the very helpful communication.
We would happily deal with you again (and probably will!). And the recipient was very pleased. Also: mortified. :-) Thanks again!" --A customer who liked his deal
"AMAZING - such fast shipping! Thank you for the great service since I can't get to your store in person." --A pleased customer
"Incredible Ladies (Past & Present) of Womyns'Ware : )
"We timely received your product and it works great. [My partner] really appreciates the comfort and ergonomic design of the product." --Comfortable Customers
"My, now fiancé and I were in the store for Valentines' this year. He thought that I was being a "princess" when he saw the prices! I insisted on you girls because I have been reading your catalogue on-line for years and I can hear both the passion for the products AND the customer in your writings. We had fun on the way back home (needless to say, given the "now fiancé", he was boyfriend then!).
Anyway, the reason that I am writing you now (apart from to report that we'll be in again soon for a water-proof vibe, if I have my way!) is to tell you that I had another on-line "women's sex-toy" store recommended to me. Adventurous, I check it out (who knows about different merchandise?). I notice "Jelly vibes" in their menu, and being well warned by you Girls in the Purple store, that's were I go first ... imagine my disgust when the toys have a advise label to "always use with a condom". Ick! I wouldn't want to date a guy seriously that I "always had to use with a condom", and you should always absolutely, without a doubt, KNOW where your toys are (they are inanimate, after all...)! But now my fiancé and I KNOW where our toys come from...the place that guarantees the quality of the merchandise they sell!
P.S. Kick butt customer service, too!" --Signed: A customer who knows why she is a "princess"
"Thanks so much "tiptoes" (so very cute!) Just wanted to say as well, that we in the staid Kelowna Interior very much appreciate your services. ... Cheers!" --A happy Okanagan Shopper
"... let me say THANK YOU! It is so refreshing to find a site/store that views sex as fun and something to be explored. And to top it off, you take people's needs, concerns, qualms and desires seriously. I can't tell you how appreciative I am." --a pleased customer
"... Just a quick note about ... gold stars across the board. Your staff were very informative and polite on the phone and I received my shipment in 2 days!! Wonderful---will definately be shopping with you for any future needs!!!!" --Satisfied in Alberta!
"As a married couple who enjoy adding toys to our play time we have had some pretty bad purchases in the past. It was really refreshing to find a retail outlet for vibes and such that wasn't just trying to sell us anything. There was some really solid advice and a great down to earth website. Congrats and Thanks." --happily married couple
"I visited the store today and ... The person who helped me was amazing. ... I'll say it again, you people are amazing." --A media person whom we admire very much
"You gals obviously care about selling quality products, while providing exceptional service. I would feel comfortable buying any of the items on this site, because if you guys didn't feel it was a quality product, it simply would not be on the site. How refreshing! I was also impressed to find a custom written note, a free sample of lube, plus, a free battery for my toy (My toy takes two batteries, but I didn't realize I was only buying one) Thank you so much for the wonderful service, and for just plain caring. " -- a happy customer
"Dear [In-Store Sales Representative]; My boyfriend and I were in your store late Saturday afternoon. We were looking for something that we could use together to help me have an orgasm. Keep in mind this has only happened a couple of times and I was starting to wonder if I would ever find something that would satisfy me and that we could use together. We walked around the store and you came up to us and gave us some ideas and you really taught me some things that I didn't even know. Anyways you suggested the LavaSpot (Fun Factory). We bought it and OH MY GOD it works great. Thank you so much for your advice and we will definately be coming in again!
Thanks" -- thankful customers
"I was just looking around with my girlfriend online, we do this every now and then for fun, for sex toys that might be interesting to talk about, make fun of, intend to buy one day, and I came up with your 'BuyerbeWomynsWare'. I just felt compelled to say ... thanks. Thank you for these reviews, suggestions, and warnings on these products, some I've seen are quite popular on other sites and in some stores. I appreciate, as many people should, healthy and educated advice, and I always like to see when anyone promotes free sexuality and not senseless hedonism. Thank you" -- A Customer Who Appreciates Honest Advice
"I bought a Tadpole from the physical store recently. Your staff are fantastic - they make you feel very comfortable for any topic. It's my girlfriend's first vibe, and we're sure to be buying more. Thanks!" -- a customer in Vancouver.
"... Nice going. I also appreciate the guide, which is a veritable encyclopaedia of toys. My wife is going to love it, I am sure. In fact, the only other place where I have seen such comprehensive explanations in what is, after all, a catalogue is the Lee Valley Tools catalogue. That puts you in pretty good company :)" --A pleased customer who knows his catalogues
"Hello, I was wondering if Womyn's Ware is planning on hiring new or more staff in the future, and if so would you advertise that on the website. The attitude of the company is one that greatly appeals to me, that of an educational and forthright stance and charmingly friendly and comfortable at the same time. Even if you are not currently hiring or looking to later on, I must commend you on this mentality, I really think it is the best way to ensure everyone enjoys their visit. Thank you very much." -- a fan who'd like to work here!
"I bought it [Joyberry] today; it's AMAZING. Once finished, I put my glasses on upside down! Absolutely worth the price." Joyful in Surrey.
"Help! I need an intervention! Brought home my new toy, the Mothra. What can I say ... I love it. The staff at the store were very helpful, and full of tips and other helpful information. It was hard to decide on which vibrator to get but I am VERY pleased with my purchase. I'm sure I'll be by next week to pick up more batteries." --a very satisfied (can you say multiples?) customer
"[T]hank you, we received our order and it's awesome stuff! Thanks" -- a customer who likes Sensua lube
"Hi there..Just wanted to let you know that I have recieved my order in great shape and excellent time! Can't wait to try everything out :)" --a happy holiday season customer
"First and foremost I would like to say how much my friends and I enjoy your store. Thank Goodness for the "bunny". Your staff is so educated and helpful, it makes life so much easier."
"Just heard about your website on the Womens Network and logged on right away. I absolutely love the site and the humour found within. I think that there is a real need for this type of business in my area whether it be in the form of a store or via catologue sales. Please let me know if you branch into the Ontario market. Your products seem like they would be great for home parties similar to Tupperware and Partylite." --a happy new customer
"You come highly recommended, and now I know why. You are the best store! Thanks for being around." --a pleased customer
"I've been a total toy virgin up 'til now, but my curiosity has finally gotten the better of me. So, I've been cruising around on the net looking for the best place to buy toys online and, while there are a few good sites out there with great information and reasonable reviews, your site is absolutely top notch. The fact that you address sexual concerns, education, safety, cleaning of toys, etc., etc., really impressed me. And your reviews were simply the best I've read, very practical and down to earth. Often sites will rave about everything they sell as if each item is the ultimate toy, but you tell it like it is, "this one isn't our favourite but still has a loyal following", "great sleeve but unfortunately they've outsourced their motor....", etc. That shows you have a lot of genuine respect for your customers and I really appreciate that. And, of course, your commitment to carrying only quality products, many of them locally made. You're one of a kind!" --a satisfied customer
"I just wanted to thank you all for a well-designed, informative website, super prompt shipping, and a wonderful product. I'm 100% satisfied with the rubber thigh harness. You'll be my adult toy store from now on." --a happy new customer
"I had a good read through your philosophy and mission and your buying practices and i was very pleased. I was recently diagnosed with vaginismus and am working though it fairly quickly now that I have the right tools and knowledge. I just wanted to let you know that the way you have articulated your philosophy is really affirming for women working through sexual pain issues."
"Thank you for the excellent service. I received my order in the mail today. I have to say, you do what you say and would recommend you to others. Keep up the good work. Thanks again." --a pleased customer
"Good day! I've been a customer of Womyns'Ware since 1998. I have a lot of respect for your company and all of your staff that I have come in contact with. You are a great "service provider" and maybe one day we can open shop in/near Edmonton!!" --a happy repeat customer
"Thank you very much. Everything looks good! Thanks for the bonus lube samples. Now, just have to get my boyfriend over here.... lol." --a happy repeat customer
"Thanks for the super fast delivery and it is our bucket of toys is great!" --a pleased customer
"[Y]our catalogue rocks, it didn't take long for me to lose 2 1/2 hours reading it they just sailed by." --a happy customer
"Just got it. WOW!! Worth every penny." --a pleased customer
"Firstly, congratulations on a wonderful site. It's about time the toy industry upped their standards in regards to quality, information and fulfilling customers' needs. I am in no way surprised your business is run by women." -- a customer
"Thanks for the in-depth response; no worries about the delay. Your efforts and thoughtful comments are exactly why I like to bring my business to your store. I completely trust your opinions and experience, and will continue to 'check with the experts' before wasting my time and money on something that sounds good but really isn't." --a satisfied customer
"First, I'd like to thank everyone at Womyns'Ware . . . what beautiful shop, staff, and atmosphere! I was beyond impressed while visiting the store last October!"--a pleased customer
"I have always said to people who don't know, 'Womyns'Ware is the only Adult Toy Store I know of that improved the neighbourhood'." --signed "A loyal customer"
"Thanks so much! Just wanted to let you know that I've had such great experiences ordering from Womyns'Ware and from the products I have received. I've been spreading the news about you as much as possible. I also have always appreciated the speedy delivery! Thanks again for everything." -- a satisfied repeat customer
"Fantastic website, very informative! Can't wait to find out if the products are as good as they seem!" --a new customer
"Dear Womyns'Ware a few months ago I ordered the Ring-A-Ding and first of all I would like to commend you on your service. I think my package arrived in two days from when I ordered. And secondly thanks for the enjoyment my wife and I shared that night. ... We aren't much into toys but this one is a definite keeper. Thanks again and take care." --A (clearly) satisfied customer!
"Thanks again! This is the 3rd Water Dancer I've bought as a gift; everyone has been very delighted! And I'll add that not only is your website really friendly and easy to use, but your staff are helpful and just plain cool!" --a happy return customer
"What a wonderful quality website! Your site was recommended on the Sunday Night Sex Show on TV by Sue Johansen. My husband and I were really impressed with your commitment to quality products that are safe and fun. Too often people buy low quality due to the embarrassment factor. It is so not only on sexual matters, but on how to use your products properly. We also truly appreciate your shipping discretion..." --a pleased customer
"We're very, very excited! We're going to bring our new toys into work (Planned Parenthood) to show them off :) keep up the good work! (p.s. this is my first time buying a vibrator and my [friend's] sixth - all from you!)" --a happy customer
"I was so thrilled with my Nimble Thimble that I had to come back for more! I've been eyeing this Mermaid vibe since my first visit to the site, so, now newly single, I decided what the heck! Hey and thanks for correcting my bill last time, I didn't realize I'd selected the wrong taxes. Keep up the amazing work!" --a pleased customer
"Hello, Tiptoes* Thanks for your long, interesting and articulate reply. You said exactly what I was thinking, especially about pathologizing women's sexuality. (We could go on and on about that theme!) It's so nice to be able to shop without being offended by sleaze, and wonderful to have my questions answered in such a straightforward and thoughtful way.
I hope to get over to your neighbourhood when we visit Vancouver next month. If not, I can always order online. Either way, I'm glad I found you!"--A customer in Ontario.
*surely your mother did not give you that moniker!
"Hi there, I have been reading your BuyerbeWomynsWare column on your site for a couple of years. I think you're bold to provide this type of information to women so they can make more informed decisions about their bodies." --an on-line web site founder
"Found the site through a spot on t.v. I only caught the very end of the segment but had to check it out--a women centered sex shop! I love the site and if I'm ever in the area I'll definitely be checking the shop out." --a pleased customer
"I have enjoyed your products in the past and am looking forward to this shipment very much. I'm glad you take such pride in selling quality items. Thanks a bunch." --a happy customer
"Your prices are lower than many other mail-order companies in North America for adult toys. Keep up the good work. Thanks." --a pleased customer
"I love your store I drop by every time I am in town and I always have a pleasant experience... you ladies rock!" --a happy repeat customer
"AWESOME JOB! I ordered on Sunday; received my new friend today [Wednesday]! Multi-thank yous! If I didn't already recommend your "store" to all of my friends, I definitely would now! Thank you!" --a pleased customer
"I recently purchased some items from your online store, and you could definitely add me to your "satisfied" customer list (tho' nameless, of course!). :)" -- a happy customer
"I was recently a shy, first-time customer in your store with my husband and was just so impressed with the helpfulness and sensitivity that the staff at WW showed us." --a satisfied customer
"Received my Fun Factory Digger vibe a couple of days ago and I am impressed! Great toy and more than I expected. Thanks for your help and replies to my emails. You made this online shopping trip a great experience. - I'll be back." --a happy customer
"Hi, just wanted to say a quick thank you. I received my package yesterday. Womyn'sWare was just awesome to buy from and I will definitely recommend you to all my friends!
Thanks again :-) " --a pleased customer
"I know this course has changed me for the better - last night, we had sex! And I had fun!... and I told him exactly what [I] was feeling the whole way through. Satisfying sex, here I come!!!!" --a Sexual Self-esteem Seminar Grad
This feedback just made our day!
"In regards to our dealings with the faulty vibe motor... I just wish to thank you, for making an unpleasant task a rather pleasant one, I am more than satisfied with the outcome. You have definitely gone out of your way to satisfy a customer, but perhaps what makes this so nice is that you have not gone out of your way, but instead have done what you always do, respect your customer. So once again thank you, I look forward to my next purchase from Womynsware."--a satisfied customer
"Hello Womyns'Ware: This is a fan letter, to tell you that the clit berry/cock ring that we got from you, when coupled with the little silver bullet vibrator has changed our sex life. You suggested putting the vibe into the berry. Well, it works! Let me add myself to your list of satisfied customers. ... [S]he comes 80% of the time we make love now, maybe more. I will certainly be into see you next time I’m in Vancouver." --a pleased customer
"Hi! Just a message to let you know that I came into your store and bought the, ahem, 'item', in question. Great store, by the way, and excellent, helpful staff. Better service than any other retail store I've been to in some time. Thanks!" --a satisfied customer
"My girlfriend received her package today complete with the special message on the box and little hearts drawn on it as I had requested. You guys are great! I'll definitely be ordering from you again in the future!" --a satisfied customer
"I received the order today and the Womyns Ware sex toy guide (thank you for it). When I was reading the guide I noticed that it said that I could get a free vibe o gizmo if I ordered a silicone dill and a mini pearl vibrator. I did order both of these items in my last order (like them very much by the way) to you so I was wondering if I could have the free gizmo as well. It would be much appreciated. I also want to thank you again for the wonderful service I always recieve from your store. It is top notch and is why I continue to order from you over and over again. Thanks." --a happy customer
"I finally made it in to your store today and was completely overwhelmed by the selection, until I got some fantastic customer service and tons of info on my specific quest.... there were too many great selections, so being unable to decide, I'll be back tomorrow (and again too) I think I'll bring my mom in!" --a pleased customer
"I used to shop in your store when I lived just off of the Drive... now I'm in Ontario, and I'm still coming back thanks to your web site and your great products!" --a loyal customer
"Great Website. My first order. Thanks." --a pleased customer
"Thanks! Just wanted to let you know how much I loved your site. I'd watched The Vagina Monologues on the Women's Channel on Saturday night and your store was one of the ads featured during the show. Intrigued, I checked out your website and found some of the most informative sex toy info out there. Thanks for endeavouring to create such a pro-woman approach to your business. I really learned a lot! P.S. I wish I'd seen your ad earlier, as I went out on Thursday (thinking I'd done my research) and bought a jelly-type vibrator for Valentine's Day. Oh well, guess that's $50 bucks down the drain. Live and learn!" --a happy 'net browser
"You very kindly sent me your advice in response to an e-mail of mine requesting info on dildos etc. as I have been experiencing problems since I developed a very tight vagina which made for bleeding and pain on intercourse. You made some suggestions and I have just returned to a trip to Vancouver, and acting on your advice, I made a trip to Womyns'Ware on Commercial Drive. I just want to tell you what a neat experience that turned out to be. Apart from my initial hesitation at walking into the store, I found the staff member who helped me to be extremely helpful, and so I walked out of the store with this new purple product in hand, plus a lubricant, and I feel sure that I will visit the store again on my next visit to Vancouver. As you mentioned, seeing and handling the products, sliding samples of lube between the fingers, is the best way to decide what is right for me. Bravo to the staff and many thanks for your advice." --a happy customer
"Your site was initially introduced to me by a resident of Vancouver who frequents your store. I have nothing but praise for your online ordering process - its fast, discreet and so easy. Thank you!!!" --a satisfied customer
"I would like to say thanks!! I placed a order on Saturday and when I picked up my mail today my order was already here. I was very pleased as I thought it would not be here for a week or two. I look forward to reading my new books. Thanks again for the fast delivery." --a happy customer
"My wife and I are impressed by quality of previous goods ordered. Very informative site for we novices. Thanks." --satisfied customers
"I just wanted to let you know that I received my package this morning- a Water Dancer vibe and a Venus dill- and I LOVE them both very much. I'd also like to thank you for the discreet packaging. I'll definitely be ordering again in the future!!" --a satisfied customer
"I just wanted to compliment you on the Beware page you have up. I stumbled across your site today and have been reading your warnings -- something I've NEVER seen on a sex toy store page, not even Good Vibrations! I was frankly appalled at some of the things I read that stores and manufacturers do to make money. Like the silver paint on the vibrator making people think it was real metal. I never realized there were many dangerous toys out there. I have bought from Good Vibrations before and they sell those Jelly and CyberSkin things -- I won't buy from them anymore! Not if they don't even CARE about their consumers health! They do go on about sexual health but they don't care if they are selling harmful items. At least you care enough to inform us of the truth out there. Thank you so much for this page, it's priceless." --a happy 'net browser
CrazyWonderful's web log ('blog') references us in (we blush) glowing terms. We've received permission to quote:
"The girls at CrazyWonderful went on a field trip Saturday to a women-centered sex-positive store on Commercial Drive. Commercial, incidentally, is known for its proportionately high population of "womanizers". Or, as Pam said, "I don't think I've ever seen this many lesbians." And then she amended, "Except maybe during that women's rugby tour of the US."
After spending close to an hour in the store, we rescued the dog from the car, phoned Pam's mom-to-be friend to see how far apart her contractions were and walked about four million miles (2.7 Km CDN, at current exchange rates) to a place that has really good fries. On the way back to the car I bought a tank top and turkey tortellini for dinner. None of us came home with any tumescent toys, but I did spend nearly $200 on other stuff in the store. No, not all books, though I did cling rather self-consciously to that area for the first few minutes. That many smiling, comfortable women in one place take some getting used to. Then I contemplated some cool paintings (carefully avoiding staring at the S/M wall display) and slowly, eventually, stopped mistaking the hum of display vibrators turning on and off behind me for my cell phone. (Imagine devils and angels and water creatures, astrological signs, and gasp-inducing works of art in all colours, shapes and sizes, all designed for the pursuit of One Thing. Out of their packages, chock full of batteries, right there on the shelves, in a clean, cheerfully bright, well-lit store. Nice.)
Pam shared interesting bits with us from the [...] guide on the way home. "So even though our products have to do with you being sexual and orgasmic," she read, "You'll find that we treat their use in the same way as accessorizing any other consumer activity."
"What does that mean?" Laura asked.
Pam replied, "I think it means: 'Do you like to roller blade in bed, or in the shower? Do you have wide feet, or narrow feet? Do you prefer to blade with a friend, or by yourself?'"
Thinking of the staff member who appeared at my elbow one second before I consciously realized I had a question three separate times, I said, "The women there were amazing. They've probably heard it all." We were equally astonished by their ease and sensitivity. Pam said that one woman had been particularly attentive, asking her if she had any questions, and when Pam said it was her first time in the store, she replied, "How are you feeling right now?"
I'll tell you how I was feeling. Like tossing my downtown 10th floor job and moving on up to selling sex toys. (Or rather, like the proprietor of the wand shop in Harry Potter, humbly, smilingly, expertly matching them up with their rightful owners.) I'd like to know what it takes to get a job there. And if I had it, I'd like to tell everyone at my old job where my new job was, bring it up on the phone every time I called my grandmother, work it into my Christmas letter, use it to explain my tongue ring, mention it with a big wink on national TV, and give all my girlfriends gift certificates there for X-mas (I may just do that last part anyway). Being a part of such an environmentally, socially, sexually friendly grrl positive atmosphere every single day would pretty much make my life. So I've added it to my list of things to do. I'll keep you posted on my progress."
" I just wanted to take a moment and write and tell you how much I appreciated your help. When I wandered in I really wasn't sure what I was looking for, as was made clear when I took in the wide array of choices available to me. Honestly, I was a little awe struck.
I ended up with a FunFactory "Dino" vibe, lovely little thing that's sitting on my bedside table right now grinning at me. I wish I'd gotten a name, but I really want to thank the [staff member] for her help. After sputtering out what I thought I wanted she led me through the elimination process for the vibes and explained length/width/bend/texture choices to me. Then, when I suddenly thought maybe I needed a dill, she was right there ready to go through all of those options too. She was fabulous, put me totally at ease, despite the fact I felt like a babe in the woods - she totally deserves a gold star!!
Well, really everyone was great, no sales pressure, and so knowledgeable, not only about the toys, but also about anatomy. Wow. I really think it's too bad that while we all grow up with a clear understanding of male anatomy and it's functions (whether we have our own or not) we don't get anywhere near the same education or exposure to women's bits. I was blown away by the "ten orgasm types" on the web-site - hell, I'd felt pretty damn knowledgeable before just knowing there were at least two! We're pretty damned special that way I guess.
Anyway, I'm sure I'll be back, likely dragging friends, I have a frequent buyer card to fill, after all!"
"I recently visited your store and was immediately taken back by the warm yet positive energy both from your staff and from the decor of your shop. Thank you for creating such a wonderful environment for exploration and fun. I found your staff very educated and easy to speak to and ask questions of...you obviously select your staff well." --a customer
"I just wanted to let you know that I have received my entire order much sooner than I expected. I really appreciate the excellent customer service you provide! Looking forward to placing more orders via your womynsware.com soon." --a customer
"I ordered from you and received the Hitachi Magic Wand yesterday. I am very impressed on how well it is made. I can find no fault with it. The only thing is that it is quite large and it would be great someday to see a miniature model manufactured. Thank you for your great advice and honesty. It has been a pleasure dealing with you." --a customer
A not so well informed Vancouver Sun “lifestyles’ columnist wrote an article complaining that there were no good sex shops in Vancouver (she’d visited the red-light district to come to this conclusion). Perhaps she’s new to the City, Country, Continent? We can’t say, but a customer wrote in and was published by the Vancouver Sun, Saturday, May 11, 2002 issue, to set them straight ...
Under the editor-assigned heading “Sex aids for Mother’s Day”, Alice l. Bell, Rn, BSN, Sexual Health Educator, North Vancouver wrote ...
“Re Angele Yanor’s May 4 column on sex toys: She and her friends don’t have to cruise the “Granville Street sex-shop circuit” to find a comfortable, well-lit shop dedicated to the celebration and promotion of female sexuality. The friendly staff at Womyns’Ware on Commercial Drive, most of whom have a teaching or counseling background, provide educational services (averageing 40 minutes per customer), as well as sales help.
The store carries more than 100 types of toys, and there’s even a display of “junk” to make the point about high- and low-end products. I’m sure Angele and her friends would only want the best. The store’s Sex Toy Guide (“an educational tool, not a catalogue”) offers recommended reading. It’s in the store and online at www.womynsware.com
As far as classifying men, according to their reactions to toys, as “horrified’ or “gay on the weekends,” a Womyns’Ware staffer told me that “if you want to meet nice, superior men, concerned and caring about women’s sexuality, this is the place. We get a lot of local firefighters buying here for their wives or girlfriends, as well as a lot of Mother’s Day shoppers.”
Toys let a woman be more involved with her partner: S/he should have no fear of being replaced.
ALICE L. BELL, RN, BSN
Sexual Health Educator
North Vancouver
More customer quotes:
"Thanks! By the way I think you have a excellent website! " --a customer in Nova Scotia
"Hey by the way... You galz rock! I live in Montreal most of the time, but I choose to shop with you. The store has a safe and welcoming environment (pro women!) and I always recommend your store to my friends!!! Best of luck to you and keep up the great work!" --a customer in Montreal
"I've been reviewing your site and products for months but this is my 1st purchase. Your informative straight approach is what won me as a customer. Hopefully my wife will also thank you and I'll be back for more goodies!" --a customer in Canada
"One more thing - thank you for having the best, woman friendliest toy shop on the web! My girlfriend and I have literally spent hours pouring over your pages. Well done! *applause*" --a customer in the United States
"I like your website. Very easy to use. Great products. Thanks again." --a customer in the United States
"Great website! Hard to make a decision, so many cool products." --a customer in Canada
"I really absolutely want to thank you for posting information about scary things in sex toys, and letting the average consumer know what's going on. I realllllllly appreciate it, as I didn't know about the toxins that leach out of things such as Cyberskin. I had a whim to get something squishier so I recently purchased a Cyberskin implement. I guess that's going in the garbage soon! Your website is wonderfully informative, and I love it." --a customer in Canada
"I just want to say that I love your site. Finally a site for womyn by womyn. This was my first purchase of this kind and your web site made it easy and comfortable. And my order arrived discreetly and fast. Thanks very much and I am sure I will be ordering other products in the future." --a customer in Canada
"What a wonderful site - it's a pleasure to be able to shop for toys without having to feel sleazy about it. And I love the extra information you give regarding each of the products. I logged on convinced I would go buy a Pearl Diver, only to reach your site first and find out that it's not worth the cardboard it's packed in. Thanks! I can't wait until the Clit Lane arrives..." --a customer
"Wow! That sure was a speedy delivery (2 days)! Express post is definately worth the small extra! ... now all I need is someone to play with! LOL -- an anxious customer from Quebec
"Just wanted to drop a line and let you know that your products live up to the advertising. They are of high quality and were exactly as I expected them to be based on the descriptions on the Web site. Thank you also for cleaning and care instructions that make sense!" --Speedy
"Just wanted to give a customer review about a specific product -- the Paisley dill -- bought a lovely copper coloured one in your store on holiday in Vancouver; as a long time dildo aficionado, and an explorer of many types, this is the holy grail...the texture adds an UNBEATABLE dimension. And it's so PRETTY" --a customer
"Thanks for your speedy delivery (express no extra charge)...I appreciate it a lot." --a customer from Victoria
"When I went to the post office on Friday there was the order - thank you for the "express" post service - I'll certainly use your on-line ordering service again!" --a customer from British Columbia
"Keep up the good work of bringing good sex toys to womyn..." --a customer from Ontario
"I LOVE your site. I am new to toy play, and it is very reassuring to know that your products are tested and of good quality and that you are concerned about safety as well as satisfaction. Thank YOU!" --a customer from the U.S.
"Many thanks, the package arrived this morning. I must say I am very impressed with the delivery speed of the Canadian Postal Service. I'm sure my wife will be very happy. I would also and that the overall "end to end" experience of shopping on your site has been very pleasant and the way E-Shopping should be. Well done-keep up the good work!" --a customer from Ireland
"Thanks! My hubby & I have LOVED the items from my 1st purchase... so let's try some other things! I so much appreciate the professionalism, integrity, and INTELLIGENCE offered at your store! MUCHO GRANDE APPLAUSE! Take care, and Happy Summer! ... oooh, just love these hot summer nights - even better with a little help from my Womynsware Friends! HA!" --a customer from the U.S.
"It is nice to purchase sex toys without having to see all the porn ads! Thanks for the very tasteful site!"
--a customer
"Thanks. You guys have a fantastic website. I thought your competitors stateside were really progressive until I came across your site. What a shock."
--a customer from Canada
"What a great website and business ... nice to see some educational thought & integrity!"
--a customer from the U.S.
"I've never had such great customer service. ... I promise to try and stir up some business for Womyn'sWare over here in Ontario."
--a customer from Ontario
"I trust your site so much, it's so good to read product descriptions and know you're getting up-front, honest evaluations. Especially with products that none of us can afford to take chances with! Bravo!" --a customer from the U.S.
"Thanks so much for the advice. You guys kick ass!!"
--a customer, in response to our detailed answer to a question
"Just wanted to thank you for the great service my boyfriend and I received when we came to your store for our late Valentines Day present. It was a very comfortable experience. You provided us with all the information we needed (how to wear a cock ring) and left us alone when needed. It was such a good shopping experience that I phoned a friend as soon as I got home and told her all about [it]. She's now going to your store. Thank you and we will be back."
--The February 19th shoppers (hence the late gift to themselves)
"Thanks, Darlin'. You saved me some money, and apparently a rash. It's nice to get honest advice about products from somewhere. I've really just got to save up for that Rabbit Pearl..."
--A customer (in response to our answer to the question "Have you tried out the "Nubby G" vibrator?")
"I had been surfing around, trying to get info on various products and the sites ranged from tacky to supremely tacky. And then I stumbled onto yours, and I immediately thought: "Aha! This is the type of site I want. Canadian, female, and with thoughtful product descriptions AND critiques of stuff that I had seen at other sites and had wondered about and pondered over. Great stuff! This was my first internet purchase, so thank you very much for making it a good one!"
--Sincerely, A customer in Montreal
"We love silicone! My recent purchase of the silicone dildos is our first experience with silicone. What a great product!!!! We are also really happy with the staying put properties of the Probe lubricant. ...and the mini-pearl vibe. We are throwing out all our old toys!
I find your site to be straight forward, matter of fact, and informative, with more than a bit of wit. My husband and I have wandered around in "sex shops" both locally and overseas. During these adventures I have been uncomfortable, and somewhat appalled by the merchandise. I would feel objectified. But not with your site. It's fun and informative. I think the difference is that your site is designed primarily for women, by (?) women."
--A customer in Florida (and yes, our site is designed by women!)
"I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate your site. I've been cruising the sex toy online shops, having never bought anything like this before. Many sites seem informative, but yours gives more info, pro and con. I'd never read before that jelly rubber is toxic, etc. The fact that you care this much about your customers' health and pleasure is why I've chosen to visit your shop. You deserve the business. Thank you!"
--A customer in the U.K.
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