When looking at strap-ons/dill harnesses, ask yourself a few simple questions to narrow the field:
What style of harness would be best for me?
Pelvic harnesses are worn with the base of the dill positioned on the pubic bone. This option allows the most variety of positions and really hot visuals. Pelvic harness use tip: clitoral stimulation for the wearer can be achieved by using any one of a variety of clever harness accessories. Next ask yourself: G-string or jock-strap? G-string harnesses have a strap that runs through the legs. Some women find it hits just right for stimulating the clit, others find it irritating. If you don’t like thong underwear you probably aren’t going to like a G-string harness. Jock-strap harnesses have two straps that go around the legs leaving your genitals exposed for stimulation. This avoids covering what you might want to play with! Men can also comfortably wear a jock-strap style.
A thigh harness is good for people who have lower back problems, don’t like the idea of pelvic thrusting, or want to expand their repertoire and already have a pelvic harness. Or may we suggest two thigh harnesses, two dills and two grrrls! Thigh harnesses can also be adapted to fit nicely over a stool or kitchen chair, a bolster or a cushion, a bed, a couch, kitchen table… you get the picture!
What kind of materials would I prefer?
Next ask yourself: leather, nylon or brief style?
Leather harnesses hold the best, but require more care. The leather will soften over time and take your shape. Provided you care for your leather properly, it will far outlast any other harness material over time. When choosing leather you are often given a choice between buckles or D-rings for fasteners. Buckles look hot but only size in fixed increments and are more difficult to adjust on the fly. D-rings are infinitely adjustable and a tug tightens them nicely.
Nylon harnesses are lightweight and can be thrown in the washer for clean up. They come in a variety of colours, and use long-lasting nylon closures. Nylon does tend to want to slide around more than leather, and the fasteners can be difficult to handle once your hands are lubed up.
Brief harnesses look just like Y-fronts except instead of a Y, there’s an “O”, a reinforced ring to hold your dill in place. They look fantastic, you can wear them under your clothes, and there’s lots of potential for leaping out of your jeans and into the sack. Just be aware that the elasticity that makes for sexy, comfy underwear may work against you when using it as a harness. So you’ll sacrifice a little sturdiness for a whole lotta sexy.
